Let’s Talk About Food!

Food is a big thing around here.

It really is a big thing for everyone to some degree – everyone has to eat!

But I enjoy making food.

Trying new things.

Baking.

Cooking.

Especially when the children are at my side.

It is just a FAVORITE part of our days here!!


I think it was God’s intention for us to enjoy food.

He was SO very creative in giving us such beautiful and delicious food!

I am not talking about the stuff that comes from factories!

I am talking about whole foods – grown and then eaten.


It was when I was newly pregnant with Chad that I learned about the power of food.

That was twenty years ago now!

I still remember the class that I went to back then about healthy eating.

Another homeschool mom taught it.

One of the first things she said was “Food is either medicine or poison for your body!”

She also taught us to only shop the perimeter of the grocery store – the produce department, the meat/dairy department, and finally the frozen food department.

Another thing that stuck with me from that class is that if you cannot pronounce the words in the ingredient list of a package food, you shouldn’t eat it.

It was a GREAT couple of hours that instantly changed the way we ate back then and still eat to this day!


I have always praised the Lord for His timing in that class and my intentional research afterwards to eat healthier.

It was just a few years later that I found out I had celiac disease.

We had already quit going to fast food restaurants, eating packaged foods, and had learned how to read labels before buying things!

How kind is it that God allowed that??

It made the transition to the medical need for gluten-free and whole foods SO MUCH EASIER!


Here is the great thing about celiac disease – ANYTHING you buy in the produce department that is in it’s original state is already gluten-free!

I still enjoy walking into the coop and standing in the middle of all the beauty of the produce.

It is so colorful and beautiful!

We make a lot of our meals with the base of whole foods.

You can make SUCH delicious food with so few ingredients!


God has allowed an incredible amount of healing for my body over these years.

Food truly can be medicine!!

I am humbled that He has trusted me with so much – celiac disease is not a quick fix!!

We have had a lot of fun in our kitchen over the years coming up with delicious favorites that everyone enjoys.

I know that you first experience the food that you eat with your eyes – so how wonderful that whole foods are so beautiful.


We have enjoyed growing our own food as well!

When we lived on the farm we had over an acre of gardens, our own meat chickens, laying hens, fruit trees, and beef cattle.

There is SO much joy in filling your dinner table with the labor of your own hands!

Here at Twin Oaks we have a small garden, and now we have laying hens.

Don’t worry – there is an expansion project swirling around in my head – just don’t tell my hubby yet!


Of course, most of our food has to be shopped for.

That is a BIG JOB.

I could never visit a grocery store ever again and be perfectly happy, ha, ha!

But if I am truly honest, I think some day I will miss the challenge of feeding all of these precious people three times a day.

We do still buy a lot of our food in bulk, but not as much as we used to when we lived on the farm and all the children were at home.

We have our meat chickens raised for us now.

We buy our beef 50 pounds or more at a time.

We buy our honey and maple syrup a gallon at a time.

We buy our main gluten-free flours in 25 pound bags, as well as our rice and oats.

I still head to the grocery store every two weeks to get the things that we need!

I make a menu plan and shop the plan.

I also have a master list of everything that we buy, and I make sure we have it all in stock in our pantry and freezers.

It is a two cart job!!

And I most often make more than one stop as well, because only certain stores carry our gluten-free needs.


So, does this mean that we are rigid and eat perfectly with every single bite?

Oh my goodness, no!

I still LOVE to bake cookies and cakes!

We still eat packaged foods – just ones with better ingredients in them!

We still like to go out and get ice cream!

There are ingredients in some of our dairy-free items that I wish were not there – but we still use them.

I wish we could drink raw milk still and use all the delicious cream from it, but we can’t!

There is always room for improvement in everything, and I do continue to make changes as the Lord leads!

It all is a balance, like everything in life.


I share photos and videos of our life on Instagram stories all day long almost everyday.

A big part of life here is our meals – and cooking and baking them – so I share that too.

I get the most questions and response about my posts about food.

Which I love!!

I have never really studied personality types much – but I just know that I am the one who needs to have a creative outlet in my life daily.

Sometimes hourly!

Isn’t it great that being in the kitchen allows that?

My hubby sure thinks so – because otherwise he knows I would be redecorating the house every three months, ha, ha!

I sure hope that you all enjoy eating too.

And that you see it as an intentional gift from God.

And that you find joy in trying new things, making beautiful food, and feeding people in your life!

What a gift!!!

Bon Appetit, friends!!!

All About the Grands

It goes with saying that we enjoy our grandchildren very much!

My favorite days are spent with all of us together!!

Ever since Saigey girl was born, we have had many sweet times with them.

I would spend every day at the farm if I could!!

I love being there so much.

Kay has enjoyed coming our way too so that the kiddos can enjoy the pool.

Summer has been a sweet season for sure!

Just look at these beautiful children!!!

Saige has already changed SO much from these photos that were taken back in June!


Right after Saige was born we would try to go to the farm here and there to help with things.

Addie helped Kay get all of the winter clothes gone through and the summer clothes put away.

That is a huge job with six kiddos!!


I bring kiddos home with me here and there too!

One day Ellie got to come home with me all by herself and her excitement just made my day!!


Most Sundays we are together too!

Sundays are the best.

Such a relaxing family day!

Addie painted forty toes on this Sunday!


Pool days are the best too!!

I tell my hubby all the time how thankful I am for that pool!!!

Is there anything better than playing in the sprinkler with your uncle at your NaiNai’s house???

Or kicked back eating your very own bag of chips???

I think not!!


I had dreams.

I have more dreams.

I tend to dream somewhat big – or at least my hubby says so, ha, ha!

My dreams end up being fulfilled beyond anything I could have thought or said.

God is good that way.

I am SO thankful and I am certainly NEVER worthy!


Lord willing, I will have many, many more years of snuggling, playing with, and enjoying our grandchildren!

It is seriously the BEST!!!

Thank you for sharing them with us David and Kayla!!!

WE LOVE YOU ALL SO MUCH!!!

The Hidden Gem

The last weekend of June was FINALLY here!!!

We had made plans with friends of ours a llloonnnggg time ago to spend the weekend with them at their lake house.

This weekend away included Blake, Lane, Tate, Eliza and myself.

WE WERE SO EXCITED!!!

I also was very excited to have the weekend to spend with our youngest three and give them our FULL attention!

We left on Friday evening after Blake and Lane arrived home from work, drove most of the way there and stayed in a hotel overnight.

The next morning we got up, ate some breakfast out of the snack bag, and headed the rest of the way to Wildwood Lake in Varna, Illinois.


Before we left the hotel, Lane filled his water bottle with a jug of water that a helper had put in our van the night before.

Thankfully Lane smelled it before drinking it – that wasn’t water after all!!

It was vinegar!

We laughed so hard!


We arrived at the lake shortly after nine.

After some big hugs and big hellos we instantly changed into our suits to hit the lake and have some fun!!!

Did we ever have some fun!!!!


Dan and Diane’s son Caleb went knee boarding first to show us how it was done.

Dan asked if anyone else wanted to, and Eliza jumped up and said ME!!

Brave, strong, agile girl!

Caleb jumped in the water with Eliza to give her a quick lesson, and then she was left on her own to get up on that knee board while the boat pulled her along.

It took her two tries before she succeeded – but she did it SO easily and enjoyed it SO much!

Made her mom’s heart swell to bursting!!

I only have a video of her knee boarding – but here is a photo of her lesson with Caleb.


Blake tried to knee board and then tried to ski.

He was so close to making both of those things happen – maybe next time!!

I was so proud of him for trying!

Eventually it was time for lunch, so we headed back to the house for that.


After lunch it was time to take out the huge tube that is named “Mabel” and do some tubing.

The rules were given – while on the tube you speak with your hands so the driver (Dan) knows what you want.

It went something like this – one finger is a snail’s pace, and five fingers you might lose a limb, ha, ha!

We all took turns and it was SO MUCH FUN!!!

Just for future reference – I chose two fingers for Blake and my turn, although we did do three fingers for a little bit.

Blake was the only one who hopped on there by himself and immediately held up both hands of five fingers, crazy man!

We said he needed a t-shirt after it was over that said “I survived the five!”


We spent the rest of the afternoon swimming in the cove by Dan and Diane’s dock.

We meaning everyone but me because I am not so into the whole shivering and turning blue thing, if you know what I mean.

It was hot that day, but the perfect temperature for me because I am always cold!

There were some water guns, sneak attacks, lots of wrestling, and a king of the lily pad game going on.

It did my heart SO GOOD to see the kiddos enjoying everything so much!!!


Next up was some jet skiing!

Blake took out Eliza and then Lane.

They had a blast!!

We had jet skis and an eighteen foot boat when we were first married – so water sports is something we have always loved!


We headed in around dinner time to have a big taco spread.

Then Dan and Diane let us run around the community with the kiddos on the golf cart.

We saw dozens of deer – they were so pretty!

We also saw tons of these wooly aphids – can you believe that is a bug??

God is so creative!!


We ended the evening with smores around the fire and catching fireflies.

Eliza named all of her fireflies before she let them go.

So cute!!


We passed out in bed that night ready for another great time the next day, and the next day did not disappoint!

Breakfast was delicious and soon after that we watched Dan and Diane’s live stream church.

The sermon was POWERFUL.


There are so many things to do at Lake Wildwood.

There was a disc golf course that the guys wanted to try.

We walked to it and enjoyed watching them – it was a beautiful day!!


Diane taught us a new card game that morning called Sevens.

I cannot wait to teach it to my whole crew here – it is best played with a lot of people – and it was super fun!


Once we had lunch (all we did was eat!!), we decided to head to the pool even though it was getting really cloudy, was super breezy and cool.

The kiddos didn’t care!!

They enjoyed swimming very much.

It was a very nice pool and Caleb is a lifeguard there.


I pretty much never wanted to leave.

But we had to since my hubby has a job and all!

We pulled ourselves away in the late afternoon for the long drive home.

First a selfie of us all – except for Caleb who was still at work.


Our ride home was uneventful and sometimes very quiet, ha, ha!

We were TIRED!!!

In the BEST possible way!!


We saw a rainbow on the way home and it was like this hug to my heart after such a wonderful weekend with our trio.

The dynamics of a big family is wonderful in so many ways, but sometimes I feel like these three get lost in the shuffle of life.

Blake and I don’t want that for them!

So a weekend like this one is a treasure for sure.


When I asked Diane what we needed to bring for the weekend and what we could expect, she told me all about their home and their community and everything that is offered there.

I wrote back and said it sounded like “a resort” that we would never want to leave, to which she said “You will see, it is just a hidden gem.”

She was right.

It is a hidden gem indeed.

Not only did we enjoy everything these photos show you, but we enjoyed our hosts most of all.

They encouraged us, challenged us, and spoke into our lives by sharing their own life.

They emulated the most selfless and giving hospitality I have ever seen.

I am still thinking about their words and their example today.

I sure hope that when Blake and I reach the season of life they are in (close to retirement and all of our kiddos grown) that we will not look inward at ourselves, but look outward at others and what we can do to love on them.

Our weekend at The Hidden Gem will not be forgotten.

For SO many reasons.

Memories made, memories tucked deep in our hearts, and now memories kept!

Bless you Dan and Diane and Caleb for ALL you did for us!!!

WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!!

Team Tate and a MRI

The day after Father’s Day, team Tate had a very early morning to head to UW Madison for a neurosurgeon check-up for Tate!

Team Tate consisted of Blake and myself – just clarifying that because as I loaded the photos for this post I realize that I only have photos of Tate from that day.

He is cute though!

And I love taking photos of him!

We had zero concerns about Tate’s stability as we headed to this appointment early that Monday morning.

Tate was scheduled for a brain MRI (to check on the VP shunt that is in the left side of his head) and also to see the neurosurgeon.

We had a beautiful morning for a drive!


First up upon arrival we learned that we had to wear masks in the MRI department, but no where else in the hospital.

Once we were in the MRI room, the gals told us to take them off because the magnets of the MRI would probably pull on them.

I was able to be with Tate during his MRI and hold his legs and feet.

I could see his face too.

He did GREAT and it was over before we knew it!


Next we headed upstairs for the appointment with the neurosurgeon.

Not only did he tell us that the MRI was perfect, he told us he did not need to see Tate for TWO YEARS!!!!!!

WHAT?!???

Isn’t that amazing!!!!

We skipped out of that place beaming the whole way!!!


It was still pretty early, so we decided to make a Costco run before lunch.

We didn’t need much, but bought some snack things specifically for a trip we were taking soon.

Then we went to Noodles and Company to get Tate his requested noodles for lunch!

I LOVE watching him eat noodles!

It is like he is just home from China all over again – with that bowl up to his lips and just scooping it in – it is SO cute!


Blake decided to get a coffee for the way home, so Tate got a decaf coffee treat too and then we hit the road to head home.


These appointments at UW Madison are getting easier and easier!!!

It still amazes us how much the Lord has allowed for Tate’s health – and Eliza’s too!

We praise the Lord constantly for their stability and also for the wonderful doctors who take care of them.

We have another UW appointment coming up for Tate in one week – and this one has more weight for our minds, as it is with his orthopedic surgeon.

We would appreciate you praying with us!

For the Lord to see fit to allow us to hear our favorite words again – that Tate is STABLE.

Praise the Lord for our Tate Owen!!

He is a precious gift that we do not deserve!!!

WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH, TATER TOT!!!