Our Favorite Weekend Trip

The second to last weekend of July we had a plan to take our favorite weekend trip to Illinois and Indy to see our extended family!

We LOVE these weekend trips, even though they are short for so many miles traveled.

I am getting to be an expert at packing everyone up for our weekends away – which is something to say for a homebody like me!

Of course, we have our essentials that must go on every trip – the things we use the most.


As soon as Blake was home from work that Thursday, we loaded up to head out!

Sad to say our trip did not start off as we hoped!

Thankfully once we jump started the van it was fine – but we do need to replace our battery very soon.


Our travel team was these three cuties!!

We arrived at our hotel in Morton, Illinois at 11 p.m.


We are usually at least one person too many for one room, so we divide into a girls and a boys room.

That means Eliza is my only roommate!

She sleeps through anything, but I still try to do my Bible time quietly in the dark.

Friday ended up being a gorgeous day in Illinois!


As usual, our first stop was with Grandpa and Grandma Nettell!

We had a wonderful visit with them – enjoying lunch – and of course Grandma had ice cream for the kiddos!


As usual, our next stop was to Four30 Scones to meet up with Blake’s Mom.

First we drove by our very first home that we had purchased the year we were married.

It looks exactly the same!

Except there was a tree missing from the front yard.


Four30 Scones did not disappoint – and it never does!

We enjoyed coffee and lemonade treats, and of course scones.

We also surprised Grandma Barb by not telling her Grant and his girlfriend Kamryn were going to meet up with us there!


Before we knew it, it was time to head on to Indy!

It is only three and a half hours from Morton.

We all arrived at our hotel at 10 p.m.


Saturday morning came early thanks to the time change.

We were SO excited to get over to my Mom’s place and see my Mom and brother!


We had a GREAT day with them!!

We went to Meijer – our favorite grocery/everything store – and got ingredients to make lunch.

My brother has traditions with the kiddos that he is SO good about continuing – a summer water fight, ice cream, and Chipotle for dinner each time we are there.

The kids had a blast!!


We thought this was funny as we saw Grant and Lane sitting side by side.

Grant is taller when they are sitting!

Not so much when they are standing!!

SO cute!!


Sunday we headed back to my Mom’s place and spent the morning there before the very long drive home.

It was SUCH a bittersweet time.

I can’t stand leaving there.

I just want all of our family to be right up the road so we can see them EVERYDAY – which is the way I think it should always be.


Before we knew it, it was time to go.

The “until next time” gets harder every time we have to say it.

We drove away with me in the front seat of the van with my hands over my face sobbing.

It was a long nine hour drive, but Blake does such a good job driving on these long trips!


We arrived home right before 7 p.m. Sunday night.

We already have our next date on the calendar, and I CAN’T WAIT to go back!

I LOVE being there SO much!

My Mom’s caretaker had my Mom write notes to Mike and I both.

It is something I will treasure for the rest of my life.

So very grateful for her care, and for my brother and all he does.

I could never say enough thank you’s or I love you’s to make my words have the weight that they should.

Our favorite weekend trip, you did not disappoint!!

It was such a wonderful weekend!

Until next time!!

Team Tate back to UW Madison

On July 13th, Blake, Tate and I headed back to UW Madison to see Tate’s orthopedic surgeon.

If you would like to read my report on Tate’s last appointment with this surgeon, go here.

It was a beautiful day for a long drive!!

It takes us a little over two hours to get to the Health and Science Center where we see this doctor, as he does not have his clinic days at the hospital where we usually go.


Thankfully it looked pretty empty when we arrived!

Last time we were there we had waited for hours to see the surgeon.

Blake and Tate went back for Tate’s imaging right away, and then we were put into a room right after that!

They had Tate change out of his clothes for the imaging this time, which is something he has never had to do before.


A resident came in first, as usual.

We had never met him before, as usual.

He examined Tate and talked to us for awhile, and also showed us Tate’s new imaging.

He left to get the doctor, but left the imaging up on the screen of the computer.

We studied it and made our own evaluation of Tate’s progress, of course!!


The surgeon came in and examined Tate as well, and looked at his new images in comparison with many old images.

We talked for awhile – we love this doctor so much!

He told us our favorite words – that Tate is STABLE!!!

Then he added the surprise that we did not need to return for ONE YEAR!!!

WHAT??!!!

That is a FIRST, my friends!!

And it will be the longest Tate has gone without imaging since he has been home from China!!

There is a need to look more closely at the kyphosis of Tate’s back as he grows, but we will do this by comparing last year’s imaging with this year’s and next year’s imaging.

We skipped out of that place, as usual!!!

And headed to get our cheerful young warrior some NOODLES!!


I couldn’t help but also ask if it was ok to stop at Costco.

We really didn’t need much grocery, but we got some snack foods for an upcoming trip and a few other things as well.


My guys wanted some coffee for the long drive home, so we decided to stop at a cute little coffee shop on the way out of town.

It was worth the stop!

They also had an ice cream shop next door that we had to peek at and take advantage of their photo spot!


Just like that, another medical day was in the books!!

We will only have four medical days total in Madison for 2023, Lord willing, – which is AMAZING, isn’t it???

We go back in less than two weeks with Tate and Eliza for their urology check-ups and then we should be done for the year!!

YAHOO!!!

If you, like us, enjoy praising the Lord – please do so for Tate’s (and Eliza’s!) health and stability!!

Thank you, Jesus, for all You have allowed!!

We never could have even imagined the story the Lord would write regarding our two precious Chinese cherubs when we looked at their paperwork all those years ago.

What a wonderful journey it has been!!

Tate is S T A B L E!!!

We could not be more thankful!

WE ARE SO GLAD, TATE OWEN, FOR YOUR HEALTH, AND WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!!!

July 4th!!

You should already know how much I love a day with everyone here – especially when it is an extra one because of a holiday!

Everyone was off of work for the 4th of July this year – so we had our family day that day!

Swimming, a cookout, and going to the fireworks was our plan!

And that is what we did.

It was SO fun to have everyone here just being together and enjoying our time!!


I made some yummy food for dinner – even some new recipes that are now favorites!

Blake grilled burgers and we had a yummy meal!


We ended up taking the grand boys to the fireworks with us, and David, Kayla and the girls headed home instead of being out that late.

The boys love a sleepover at NaiNai’s house!!

So do we!!


I am realizing I do not have many photos of this day!

But memories were still made and now memories are kept!

Hope you all had a wonderful 4th of July too!!

The Rest of June

After all those posts about June, you would think I had nothing left to talk about!

But I do!!

Our days are full and wonderful and these memories deserve to by kept.

I read some good books in June!

The Quilt Walk was a read aloud to Tate and Eliza, and the other three I read for myself.


We enjoyed some rhythm school like days in June.

Not as many as we normally do in the summer, but as you can see by my previous posts, this summer is busy!!

Please notice Eliza’s cursive practice page she wrote after we had spent the weekend at our friend’s lake house!


Piano lessons continued in June!

Piano lessons change for six weeks in the summer to a new schedule and some optional summer fun classes.

Tate also had his assessment for Level 6 piano on June 12th and moved up to Level 7 where Eliza already is!

This made the need for a new keyboard, as they both need a place to play the piano at the same time for their 45 minute daily lesson.

We researched, ordered one of of Amazon, and are very please with how it turned out.

We just need to change the height of the stool and it will all be perfect!


Lane’s library job continues on as well!

He is working on Monday and Wednesday mornings, and then he and I worked two Saturday’s in June.

He loves it and we love it!

We spend a lot of time at the library!!

Thankful it is only 5 minutes away from home.


Orthodontic appointments also continue on!

Lane finally got his Invisilign on his teeth on June 21st.

He did great that day and has been very diligent in wearing them and in the care of his teeth!


Every summer and Christmas break I make a list of deep cleaning projects to tackle.

I just cannot get to these things during the regular flow of the school year.

I had a HUGE list for this summer and I am knocking them out a couple of hours at a time!

So far, I have deep cleaned and organized:
the game closet
the master closet
the master bedroom
the storage room
the one side of the garage
the office/school closet
the office pie safe
the kitchen cabinets

That is A LOT!!

It takes time and intention, but I am getting it done.

I should have taken before photos so these after photos would look more impressive, ha, ha!


I also run errands usually every two weeks besides getting grocery.

There are always errands that need done!

My beloved sandals, that I had bought last August on sale to use this summer, started to come apart.

Thankfully I shop at Rogan’s shoes, and they keep your purchases under your phone number in their system.

They do this because they have a buy one get one half off incentive that they keep track of for you.

Well, I took those sandals back, and with my phone number they were able to verify my purchase, and they gave me a brand new pair!

So thankful I was brave enough to ask!!


We all get out and about for some fun too!

While Lane was working one morning, Tate, Eliza and I went and did some thrift shopping.

It was fun!

I had done a little thrift shopping while running errands one day as well and found some of Kayla’s dishes and got them for her for just a few dollars!


Blake and I also took Tate and Eliza on the bike trail one Friday night while the big kids went to play volleyball.

We had a blast and then we headed to the Co-op for some icecream!


I enjoyed a baby shower for one of my dearest friend’s daughters.

It was SO well done!!

So fun to celebrate their baby boy on the way!!


Of course we still LOVE to be outside.

Swimming and playing with the animals are favorite things, but we enjoy just reading outside too!


The bugs have not seemed as bad this year – maybe because it is so dry?

We still need bug spray once in awhile though!

I really was thankful for this tip I learned years ago – so I thought I would share it here.

I put our bug spray in continuous spray water bottles like hair stylists use at their hair salon.

It NEVER gets clogged and gives the BEST coverage of bug spray because of the fine mist it sprays.

Try it!!

It is great!!


We had a visit in June from our Auntie Gail and her Mom, Grandma Dorothy.

It was SO great to see them and spend some time with them!

Grandma Dorothy brought us all new quilts she had made, and also two blankets for Tate and Eliza.

They love them and use them endlessly already!!


Tate got hurt back in June.

Aspen was riding piggyback on his back as they were running at the farm, and he fell.

Aspen was OK!

Tate’s face got a little beat up, poor guy!

It healed up quickly, thankfully!!


Don’t you love when your kiddos know just what you need?

My beautiful daughter, Addie Mae, brought these home for me one June afternoon!


I set some laundry in the boys room early one morning and saw this.

Two guesses which bed is Tate’s.

He is such a GEM!!


Here is what happens when you make fresh salsa.

Actually, that happens with pretty much everything I make, ha, ha!!

I love filling their bellies so much!!!


When we were in Madison for one of Tate’s appointments in June we had noodles for lunch from Noodles and Company.

It was SO VERY SWEET when Tate asked if he could save part of his lunch for Eliza.

Oh my goodness, his heart for other people is going to take him far!!

Eliza enjoyed the rest of those noodles very much!

I did not get a photo soon enough – they were almost gone!


I am cutting hair a lot less these days.

I take the youngest boys to the hair salon I go to now, but I still cut Blake and Chad’s hair.

I have been cutting my guys’ hair for 26 years now!


We had and still have (unfortunately!) a hot water problem.

It has been a dance of sorts since we bought this house, as the water heater is just not big enough for this many people!

That water heater broke in June, so Blake decided to put in a tankless one instead.

It was an investment, but we were thrilled to think about having endless hot water!!!

Can you imagine??

Unfortunately, something is not quite right with it all, and our water pressure is now a trickle if you are trying to use hot water.

We need to figure it out!

While Blake installed that new water heater one Saturday, I boiled water all day long as I worked in the kitchen to be able to wash the dishes.


Tate and I enjoy making some summer drinks on the weekends when everyone is here.

Our favorites have been ice tea and honey ginger lemonade.

I need to make those again!!

They are both so good!


I always make my own toothpaste from simple ingredients.

It is a great whitening toothpaste, if you want to give it a try!

I use it a couple times a week to keep my teeth looking white.


At the end of June Addie and I ended a funeral in Iowa.

It was a very sad reason to see some of our dearest friends who were also there, but we were able to spend about an hour with them.

Hoping to see them again soon!!


This crew had a great time while we were away!

I love when we have dynamics changes and we get to be with just a few or even just one of the kiddos!!


This next photo is just a snapshot in time.

Lane and I looked around one day and mentioned all of the things that we have been able to finish here at Twin Oaks over the last six years.

It has been amazing!!

Furniture for our basement was one of those things.


Have I mentioned our pups lately?

Those goats and chickens are stealing the spotlight I think!!

Well, we still love our Ruby Jane and Sadie Jo as much as ever.

There is also one very cute and slightly persuasive eleven year old begging for another dog – one to call her own.

Hmmm.

How many animals is too many??


Guess what???

It’s SKY TIME!!

Which means this extremely long post is coming to an end!!!!


Can you believe I kept that to only ten photos??

Your welcome.

You guys, it is almost the END OF JULY.

Please someone stop time.

School starts for us in two and a half weeks!!!

I am screaming on the inside.

This summer has flown by.

I looked up the word capacity today.

It means “the maximum amount that can be contained.”

YEP.

That pretty much describes life right now!

But I LOVE IT.

So much.

I hope you are enjoying summer too!!

Here comes August, folks, but my next posts will be about July!