Chad’s Accident

Yesterday around 11:30 Chad cut his left hand on a table saw while he was at work.

Thankfully, he has very capable co-workers who jumped into action to help Chad right as the accident happened.

Chad (yes, himself) called me on my cell phone around 11:50, and said, “Mom, I need you to come, I cut my hand on a saw and my boss wants me to go get checked.”

He was extremely calm – that and his choice of words gave me my own opinion about the accident – that it must not be that bad!

I still left quickly and I arrived at Chad’s work by noon, as he works very close to our home.

Thankfully Addie Mae was home and she stayed with the others kiddos.

When I arrived on the lot I was met by Chad’s boss’s son and was told to follow him – which I did.

Chad’s boss and co-workers helped load Chad into the front seat of the van.

They had a bandage over Chad’s hand and a tourniquet on his wrist.

We got to our local hospital in about ten minutes and a nurse met us and took Chad inside.

Right away the nurse and the doctor started working on taking the bandage and tourniquet off Chad’s hand and wrist.

I stood there looking on and saw the injuries for the first time.

I think I knew right away that things had just drastically changed for us – for that day, for this week, and for our summer.

Chad was extremely calm even though he was in a lot of pain.

I found it easy to remain calm too, and appreciate a doctor who looks at an injury like that and immediately says “It could be so much worse! Thank goodness you still have your fingers. One fourth of an inch further and they would be gone.”

Yes, PRAISE GOD.

Praise God, Praise God!

They gave Chad a shot of pain meds and then we sat for 30 minutes while they soaked his hand to clean it.

I took this photo during that time – one, because it was my view – and two, because as I looked at his feet and watched Chad handle this huge trial I realized that my boy is becoming an amazing young man.

After soaking Chad’s hand, the nurse cleaned it some more, and then the doctor came in and numbed one of the four fingers that was injured so that he could explore the wound to make decisions about Chad’s care.

That was NOT fun.

It took just a minute of the doctor exploring that wound before everything quickly changed.

An IV was started for antibiotics, Chad got a tetanus shot, phone calls were being made to have Chad transferred, and the reality of the severity of Chad’s injury struck us both.

That’s when we both cried for the first time.

It was a much needed release, and definitely ok to be sad that this had happened!

They got Chad bandaged back up to make the trip to UW Madison where Chad would see a hand specialist and have surgery to repair his hand.

Chad was smiling once they put that splint on because it cut his pain level in half.

So thankful!

At this point Blake left work and headed our way.

Around 4:00 we were discharged from our local E.R., met Addie and the other kiddos in the parking lot for quick hugs and to grab food and supplies, and got on the road to make the two hour trip to Madison.

We arrived around 6:00 and headed in through the emergency entrance like we had been instructed to do.

Everyone we met knew we were coming, and they paged the surgery team within minutes of us being there.

More decisions needed to be made, so they unwrapped Chad’s hand.

We cried some more, not gonna lie.

The surgeon decided to do a first “surgery” right there in the E.R. by giving Chad a BIG pain med through his IV and by doing a numbing block to each one of his fingers.

We got to travel with his IV port still in his arm and I am so thankful it was still there and useable!

The numbing process was a lot.

So many shots. Oh my heart.

The nurse brought in an IPad to try to distract Chad from all that was going on.

While we waited for the numbing block to take its full effect he and Blake watched fishing videos.

They laid Chad flat for the surgery so he would not be able to see.

The surgeon did a lot of cleaning of Chad’s wounds.

There is a huge concern for infection because of how deep the wounds are and because they were made by a table saw in a wood shop.

After getting it all clean you could really see the damage very clearly.

The surgeon started telling us what he was seeing in each wound on each finger, and as the list grew I knew this was far from over.

Chad has tendons that are exposed and injured, his pinky is fractured, and all of his joints are exposed as well.

We were told that he will have to have surgery in an O.R. this coming week to do a proper repair.

For now the surgeon closed the wounds, dressed them, and put Chad in a cast.

We were SO glad to have that part over with!!

It was 9:00 p.m. by this time, so we sent Blake after some food.

Chad was finally allowed to eat!

Chipotle was the unanimous decision for some yummy food and it was pretty close by.

I wish I could tell you it was delicious, but I don’t remember chewing or tasting it because I ate it SO fast!

Chad was needing another big dose of antibiotics before we could go home.

While we were waiting on that (and our discharge instructions), a nurse came in and moved us to a waiting room because the E.R. was SO busy that they needed our room.

Finally at 11:00 p.m. we walked Chad out to the van and headed home!

We got home at 1:15 a.m. and went straight to bed.

Chad had a restful night last night and his pain was managed well.

It was so good to be all together again this morning!

We are keeping Chad still and quiet until we return to Madison this week.

We do not know exactly when yet, but will know on Monday morning.

I have a bazillion questions for his surgeon!

I cannot publish this post without trying to find the words to express our humble appreciation for the OUTPOURING of support, prayers and love we have had yesterday and today.

When we knew Chad was being transferred to UW Madison, I put a post on Instagram asking for prayer.

IT TOOK OUR BREATH AWAY TO SEE SO MANY STAND IN PRAYER ON OUR BEHALF IN OUR TIME OF NEED.

You all, THAT is what the body of Christ looks like – caring enough about someone else’s trial to take the time to storm heaven’s gates on their behalf!

Prayer is SO important!

I do not even know how to properly say thank you.

But thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

We needed you all so much.

We felt each prayer. Really we did.

We felt hugged and held with each comment, message and text.

Again, thank you.

Please keep praying!

For Chad’s heart as he struggles with the feelings that he let his boss and the co-worker that he was working with down.

For the reality that is setting in about how much this summer just changed for Chad and for us.

For the surgeon (whom we LOVE) who will try to repair Chad’s hand to full function.

For pain management.

We know the truths from God’s Word and we are focused on them.

We have a sovereign God and WE LOVE HIM!!

He KNOWS IT ALL.

Pray God will use this trial FOR HIS GLORY ALONE.

That our every response will glorify HIM!

“For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.” Isaiah 55:8-9

A Sweet Date Night

If you have been around here for awhile, you know how much we value purposeful time together as a family!

And, by the way, thank you for being here!!

You all are so sweet to read this little blog of ours!

Anyway – this last week I mentioned to Blake that I would like to do one-on-one date nights with the kiddos again this summer like we did last summer.

Friday morning rolled around and I texted Blake saying I had a better idea – why not bring two kiddos on date night at a time instead?

He loved that idea and we decided to do it that evening!

I let the secret out around lunch time that Tate and Eliza were going on date night with us that night.

They were thrilled!

We headed to town to run some errands while we waited for Blake to text to say he could meet up with us.

We had packed a cooler for our dinner, but met Blake at the grocery store to pick out a few additions to dinner and some ICE CREAM, of course, of course!

We ate at a coffee shop.

These two were HILARIOUS.

Aren’t they cute too!??

Ok, then.

Blake had bought coffee for us at that coffee shop where we ate our dinner – and we literally threw it all away.

It was SO BITTER.

Since we were eating a from a cooler of our own in their coffee shop, we did not feel right about complaining about their coffee!

As soon as we were done there we headed to Starbucks!

Coffee for Blake and I and juice boxes for Tate and Eliza!

We shopped a bit (see Eliza’s cute new hat?) and then it was time to get those groceries.

Grocery shopping is the pits until you bring two seven year olds along with you!

Between listening to Tate and Eliza’s comments and questions as they experienced a bit of the world, to singing hymns with them in the van at the top of our lungs, to seeing their delight in the special attention they were receiving all evening – well, it was pretty much the best date night ever!

I sure hope we remember to make this a summer time tradition!!

Life is flying by, and it takes thought and purpose to do things like this!

Chad and Lane are up next!!

I CAN’T WAIT.

Father’s Day

We really enjoyed celebrating Blake and David on Sunday for Father’s Day!

I love this photo of our leader with his seven arrows (and Clyde!) so much!

I wish I would have gathered David with his arrows for a photo as well!

The kiddos had fun picking out gifts for Blake and Addie and I had great fun making all the food!

We chose fish tacos with all the yummy fixings for dinner, and a chocolate strawberry trifle for dessert.

There were no leftovers, so I know the meal was a HIT!

After dinner it was time for gifts and cards.

Our precious Eliza.

She enjoys writing cards and notes to others.

I think this is her love language!

She wrote this card to her Daddy all on her own.

SO sweet!

After the gifts were open, we had dessert and just enjoyed being together!!

Chocolate smiles from Ellie Joy –

I tried to pay tribute to Blake on Instagram on Sunday by sharing with words what he means to us.

I could not find the words!

Chad told me I was having an “Insta-cramp!”

Ha, ha!

How do you find enough words to accurately describe a man like our leader?

He is self-less. One hundred percent of the time. Always serving others first and most.

He is driven, purposeful, and full of vision for our family and our future.

He is patient. In a way I have never seen in anyone else I know. ALWAYS patient.

He pursues me. Treasures me. Cherishes me. And each one of our children and grandchildren too.

Blake LIVES the way Jesus commands us to. In all he does and says.

He is inspiring.

He has been a father for 26 years now – and is still ALL in.

His children are blessed.

So am I.

I shake my head often as to why the Lord would give someone like me someone like him.

I am so undeserving!

But I am SO grateful the Lord did.

Blake, you are SO loved!

We do not celebrate you NEAR enough!

Happy, Happy Father’s Day, sweetheart!

Happy Father’s Day to the absolute BEST son-in-law as well!

A Cold Week of June

Hello from chilly Wisconsin!

As I type this, I have on a big fleece sweatshirt and am wondering if we are going to need our furnace turned on again?

At least it is not raining today!!

We enjoyed our week despite the weather and did have some moments of sunshine that were delicious!

The kiddos signed up for the reading program at the library…which is really not a challenge for them, but it is fun to keep track of their minutes of reading to earn those free books!

My love of reading has yet to return!

I do not have much time to sit still these days – and when I do, I would rather enjoy watching the kiddos!

When we go to the library, we also stop at our Coop!

I bought some greens this week since our garden is not quite ready to eat from!

I am loving smoothies lately.

Especially green ones!

Don’t you love that photo above of Ruby curled up on the couch in the middle of all those books?

She has mellowed quite a bit lately!

She still has a lot of pup in her too, but she is not as rowdy as has been in the past!

That swing on our lower patio is my new FAVORITE place!

Eliza likes to swing with me a lot.

The movement is so good for her!

She took a nap in the crook of my arm on that swing one afternoon and it just filled me up so much!

While she was napping, I was watching Chad play hide-and-go-seek with Lane and Tate.

Buddy, I don’t think this is the best hiding place!

We use the moments of dry weather to work outside too.

My grounds crew is the BEST!

They keep the land looking good!

Thursdays we head to Briar’s place for dinner!

I make and bring dinner, and everyone else comes there after work.

It brings a lot of chaos to Kay – but I know she loves it anyway!

We try to leave their place in great shape before we drive away!

This past Thursday I made sloppy joe’s, which Ellie Joy calls “barbie – shoo!”

I love her!

They have new kitties at Briar’s place, and they are a hit with ALL the kiddos!

One evening last week we had a storm roll in and the clouds were SO majestic.

I took photos standing at the end of our driveway from right to left!

Date night this past Friday was a grocery run.

Not all our dates are glamorous!!

We just enjoy being together!

But this time we literally ripped the grocery list in two, split up and met back at the front of the store when we were done.

We were tired.

Really, really tired!

Saturday was a huge day for the pool project!

The guys got to work early and did not finished until late evening.

The water truck was coming late in the day and they needed to be ready!

First up was getting ready for a load of sand.

The sand was delivered before lunch!

I was snack support!

They ate half of a watermelon in two minutes flat!

Eliza and I went to a bridal shower in the afternoon, and when we got back one load of water had been put in the pool and they were waiting on the second load!

The sun had went away during the afternoon, the temperature had dropped to 60 degrees, and the wind was fierce.

These poor guys have quite the stories to tell of how they did not let that pool fly away as they tried to set it to fill it!

It involves tossing some children into the pool – just saying.

Blake is disappointed that it is not set perfectly square on the foundation they built – but I have to say I think it is fantastic!

Eliza and I had a wonderful time at the shower!

Kayla and Briar went with us too!

Just look at what she filled out for the bride!

All by herself!!

SO CUTE.

Yesterday we celebrated Blake and David – that will be up next!

I just got a text from Chad, who is out with his Dad.

Chad just got a JOB.

He starts in two hours. I’m not kidding!

Okay then, I can’t see through the crying in my eyes to type anymore!

Happy tears! And growing pain tears! All mixed together!

Stay tuned for a post of our sweet Father’s Day yesterday!!