First Day of School

Yesterday was our “official” first day of school!

I had lots of helping hands late Sunday night to help me finish getting ready.

I really do have a “life is always school too” attitude, but there is something to be said for the structure of our full-time school year days verses our summer-time school days.

We have had traditions in place for the first day of school since that first year I started homeschooling, sixteen years ago!

I make a special breakfast, we take first day of school photos, and I show the kiddos all of their plans and new books.

I made homemade waffles, berry compote, bacon and fresh squeezed orange juice for breakfast – and then praised the Lord that Addie Mae was off work to help in the kitchen!

Addie took first day photos for me – and here is our line up.

Chad Ryan, 12 1/2 years old, 7th grade.

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Lane Stevan, 8 years old, 3rd grade.

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Tate Owen, five years old (tomorrow!), Pre K.

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Eliza Claire, 4 years old, Pre K.

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We jumped in with a trial schedule and a trial seating arrangement, but a whole lot of enthusiasm and excitement!

I think their Mama might have been as excited as they were!

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I usually get out our pool at the beginning of the school year. I still did, even though we are starting so early and the temperatures are still summer like, well, since it is summer!

We bought a new pool for this year (much needed!), and Blake carried up the buckets of rice from the basement and filled it for me – after the four youngest kiddos were in bed Sunday night, of course!

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Last week the littles and I finished up our “A” week!

We wrote the letter A in all kinds of stuff, including sand, which is a great way to give Eliza a sensory snack!

See her touching the sand? And her other hand “itching” her face? Whenever we stretch her sensory boundaries, she “itches” herself everywhere. It looks like she is “flicking” something off her skin. She itches about 25 times while I comb her hair every morning. It is a coping mechanism. Sweet, strong, brave girl!!

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We had the letter “A” printables – which the littles love!

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Of course we painted with cut open apples! I don’t have any photos of us doing this activity, because it was a stretch for Eliza to touch, and then there was Tate on the other side of me with open bowls of paint, if you know what I mean!

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I pulled in the middle boys and we set up an apple science experiment as well! The results are very interesting so far. We will wait the full week to make our final evaluation!

And, yes, I put a post-it note on the kitchen counter in front of our experiment saying what it was when our realtor showed the farm!

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Starting school this early was a mind game for me, but I am so glad now that I did! Without the bigs here, animals to take care of, and constant doctor appointments….we just need some structure to our days. It has been a blast so far!

I am still adjusting to having only four kiddos in school this year, and no high schoolers! The dynamics are so different, but very fun at the same time!

It’s “N” week this week for the littles, and the middles are settling into their new full-time routine nicely!

Looking forward to this year with my kiddos very much!

Tate’s Day!!

Wednesday was Tate’s Day!

The one year anniversary of Tate being placed into our arms!

Tate wanted his celebration to be exactly like Eliza’s!

Brownies, strawberries, ice cream, and a present.

Simple and the perfect way to celebrate!

He even told me we could not celebrate until after baths and pjs, because that is when we celebrated with Eliza.

SO sweet!

Tate opened his present! A puzzle and a matching activity!

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Then he played with one of his new things.

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We had our dessert!

And told Tate how very happy we are that he has been home one WHOLE year!

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We stand amazed at what one year has done for this precious boy!! He is growing (yay!), healthy, gaining strength and coordination, speaks English very well, and is medically stable at this time! He smiles that dimply smile from the moment he wakes up and all day long! He is full of life and joy. We just cannot imagine life before Tate!!

I shared on Instagram about a rough morning we had with Tate this week. All the talk of this anniversary, of being in China, and his birthday coming up made Tate loose his feelings of security. He has been acting out all week long – BIG TIME.

What I did not say on Instagram is that when one of the littles has moments like the ones we are having this week, there is a lot of reflection going on for Blake and I. What was the trigger? What was said around them? What emotional need is needing to be met? How do we regain their feelings of security? And then we hunker down tight and focus on pouring out the extra grace and love to get things turned around right again.

So that is what our week has been about. Tate is SO smart. He is aware of every single thing going on around him. And he remembers most of his life in China before us. He can use these things to his advantage or his disadvantage. We are doing our very best to help him succeed!

Tate Owen, we love you!

We are so very grateful that you have been home one whole year!

Happy Tate’s Day!!

Fun Facts Friday!!

Woo Hoo!! It is FRIDAY everyone!!

We have a busy weekend ahead, but I am looking forward to it very much!

I was browning some meat for lunch this week, and thought I should share this tool with you.

Sorry for the yucky photo of raw meat!

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A friend talked me into buying this from a pampered chef party, and I remember thinking “I do not need another gadget!”

We use it ALL the time! So glad to have it!

It is called Mix ‘N Chop from Pampered Chef and is only $12.

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Many years ago, just a couple of years past my celiac diagnosis when I just could not get well, we dug in our heals and made sure that all my cosmetic products were gluten-free too.

Back then it took many phone calls to manufacturers to see if their products were gluten-free.

SO important!

There are new, better, gluten-free brands out there now-a-days!

I really love the brand Dessert Essence.

I use their shampoo, conditioner, and toothpaste!

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If any of you have been following along here for even one week, you probably know how much I LOVE to cook, bake and be in the kitchen!

My Dad got me hooked on the show The Pioneer Woman.

He loved to watch it, and always told me she reminded him of me – I think because of the quantities of food she makes!

But she does homeschool too!

I still watch her show when I get a chance by streaming it through Amazon.

Can you imagine that kitchen!! Now that would be a fun one to work in!

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I have been collecting library books for the start of school.

I had to use three library cards to be able to order all that I wanted to!

FIAR go-along books, My Fathers World go along books, and ABC go along books.

I have not quite picked them all up yet!

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Addie Mae picked up a new wading pool for me when she was out and about.

I am setting it up for the first day of school.

Guess what I am filling it with?!

I know some kiddos that will love it!

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Chad calls this a “poor man’s peanut butter cup.”

There is nothing “poor man” about the way we eat – but I see where he is coming from!

In the shape of a cup, on a spoon – it still hits the spot!

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We have a HUGE celebration coming up – even though we are keeping it small – because there is a precious tiny tornado who is turning FIVE years old!

Should be a GREAT weekend!

Happy Friday everyone! Have a great weekend!!

One Year of Forever More

One year!

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One year ago today, Blake and Grant paced the lobby of their hotel in Hohhot, China, waiting for Tate to arrive.

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Tate ran across that lobby when he saw Blake, yelling “BABA!!” while jumping into Blake’s arms and giving him a kiss.

About an hour later, when they answered my Skype call, Tate called me Mama while waving to me and blowing me kisses.

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It is really hard to find words to explain the kind of deep love you feel for an older child you have yet to meet, touch, or hold.

It is a God ordained kind of love!

A love that never misses a beat, no matter how hard things get.

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Thankfully, this precious boy was loved very well his first four years of life.

It has made all the difference in our journey with him the last year.

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Tate has had a lot to face medically in his short life.

And unfortunately, he will be facing much more in the years to come.

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God has protected our hearts SO much in regards to the fear we could have about Tate’s medical prognosis.

We simply see Tate as fearfully and wonderfully made!! By our Lord and Savior!! Who knows every hair on Tate’s head!!

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It has been a tremendous life-changing privilege to follow the Lord’s call upon our hearts, and bring these two beautiful children home to our family.

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We certainly do not feel worthy of the blessed gift that they both are!

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Not only are they now brother and sister, but they are also each other’s best friend!

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It has been three years ago this spring that we started walking this adoption journey, as we started the paperwork process at that time.

We have grieved the loss of everything we called “normal”, but we have gained SO much more than we ever could have imagined.

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We love you Tate Owen, our teeny tiny cheerful young warrior!!!

We have loved you since the minute we printed your photo and started praying for you in the spring of 2014!!

We will love you always and forever!

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Thank you, Heavenly Father, for trusting us with SO much.

Photos by big sister Kayla, Seasons of Joy Photography